Discover a Secret To Using Reverse Psychology to Save Your Relationship

If your relationship hit a rough spot and you want to rekindle your relationship by using reverse psychology to get your ex back is not as complicated as it sounds. You just want your ex to notice you and not ignore you. All you do is use some straightforward methods that will make your ex take notice of you and not continue to ignore you.

1. First thing you should be doing is to get out and have some fun. Start meeting other people and do not sit home and think about your ex all the time. This is going to be tough for you, but it beats staying home night after night on your own and filing the urge to contact your ex or sitting and thinking about them and getting depressed. So even if you are not in the mood to go out and socialize, force yourself to go out and make some new friends or connect with old friends.

2. Your second thing should be to promise yourself that you will not make contact with them. That means no driving by their home or work, no texting, no calling and definitely no trying to see them. This might seem counter-productive to your ultimate goal of getting your ex back, but look at it this way: if you stop calling your ex, especially when they've made it clear that they don't want to be contacted, then you appear calm, mature and in control of yourself, you never want them to see your desperation, which gives them the upper hand in the relationship. Once your ex begins to see you this way you are immediately more appealing than the desperate person you were who was bombarding them with calls.

This simple reverse psychology means that if you have stopped trying to make contact with your ex, then immediately your ex begins to wonder just what you're up to. They start thinking about you wondering why you're not contacting them, so now you are in their thoughts, which is just where you want to be.

Your ex finds out that you are out and about having fun enjoying yourself, they'll be surprised how well you are doing without them. They might even be jealous because it appears, you don't have time for your ex and it's basic human nature to want that which is scarce and that's exactly what you will become. Just like that, you've become someone who is desired and not someone to be avoided.

Taking the steps towards understanding how to win your ex back really means looking after yourself first and foremost. When you concentrate on your own requirements first and foremost, without obsessing about what your ex wants and what you should do to please them, then you inadvertently find yourself using these simple forms of Reverse Psychology without even realizing it. So you see, it is not a complicated process and you will find that your ex will respond to you in a more open and amenable way.

The Best To You,

Jeanette Fitzgerald
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