People get divorced for many reasons. One of the reasons has to do with broken trust. Once the trust is broken in a relationship it takes some time to rebuild that trust. Some couples are able to rebuilt that trust and others just can not forgive and forget that their partner has cheated on them.
If you find yourself in that situation where your spouse wants a divorce because you have been unfaithful. Well there are things that you should do and some things that you should avoid doing if you want to help. If there is something that you did that is the problem, don't promise that you will change unless you are dead serious about changing. You realize that you make a mistake and do not want a divorce, first thing you should do is apologize to your partner and start accepting responsibility for your actions.
Actions speak louder than words :
Make sure you don't give your spouse any reasons to question your faithfulness.
You must prove that you can be trusted again..
You must promise your partner that you will never do it again.
Your partner is going to need time so don't get mad because he don't trust you.
Seek out your friends that went through the same thing and made their relationship work again. If your relationship is important at all, it is well worth trying to find help before divorce is the only option. Try to find the best relationship advice you can.
Be ready for depression to come because of what the two of you are going through. It isn't easy to deal with this and you may need some kind of therapy to help you cope and understand what is happening. Love relationships can be great but they can also bring a great deal of stress when there is broken trust involved. If you want to know how to stop a divorce, seek as much help as possible. You don't have to do it alone.
And you might want to visit http://makinguptips.org/ for more tips and tricks and tools on how to rebuild your relationship.
Good Luck,
Jeanette Fitzgerald
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